The majority of us have quit XIV, but there are a few still playing. As for XI, I would like to return and I've been trying to recruit new members, but its just not happening, so I dunno if I'll even bother with so few interested.
And yeah we're all looking for something to play, but a worthwhile title has been neigh impossible to find.
I've been playing Vindictus this past week or so, and its rather fun, might I suggest you give it a try. There is also Rift that several here have expressed interest in launching March 1st.